The Infinite Digital Studio

Dis-moi, qui es-tu? — Here’s My Answer

Sophie Dzovig Ajamian

(Yes, it’s Armenian. Yes, there’s a story behind it.)

I’m Sophie — author, illustrator, and creative tornado behind The Infinite Digital Studio. I design journals that tug at your heart, bilingual books that cross borders, cultural coloring books that celebrate traditions, and digital printables that are sometimes prettier than your grandmother’s china.

I’m not some up-and-coming 20-something influencer. I’m 66, proudly seasoned like a good cast iron pan, and I’ve lived long enough to know that memory matters.
My kids? They’re grown now, raising their own — and watching me turn stories into legacy, grief into art, and ordinary days into pages worth keeping.

I create with love, with humor, and with a slightly over-caffeinated soul.
I don’t do fluff. I do truth, beauty, and the kind of messy emotion that makes a story stick.

Whether you’re here to print something beautiful, pass down something meaningful, or simply color your way through history —
Welcome. You’ve found something real.

🌱 Roots & Beginnings

I was born in Beirut, Lebanon, into an Armenian family — but unlike many others in our community, I grew up speaking perfect Arabic. We lived in a neighborhood surrounded by Arab families, and language flowed through me like breath. In school, I was the only student allowed to skip memorizing the Arabic lessons — I made no grammar mistakes, not even in history or geography.

I’m the eldest of four — three younger brothers behind me — but more than that, I was the first-born of my generation in the extended family. Among cousins and siblings alike, I was the first baby, the first grandchild, the one who opened the door. And as the firstborn, I held a unique kind of light in my family.

Both of my grandmothers cherished me, each in her own unforgettable way. My maternal grandmother called me “the sunshine of the family.” I was born in mid-June, at exactly twelve noon — full sun, full promise. She believed I was born to bring light into the family.

My paternal grandmother was a force. A pillar of kindness, strength, and service, she was deeply involved with the Red Cross — so much so that when she passed away at only 49, the streets filled with people. I was thirteen. It felt like the city was mourning a public figure. I was devastated. We all were. That loss carved something in me — something tender and sharp — and I carry her strength with me still.

My maternal grandmother, the one who called me her sunshine, lived a life of quiet sacrifice. When she passed away, she had almost nothing — not because she never had, but because she gave all she had, always. She was deeply religious, driven by faith and service. My aunt — her daughter and closest witness — later told me stories that left me breathless. She would walk the streets with Bibles in her hands, gently insisting that strangers read a passage. By the end of her life, she was collecting fruits and vegetables left behind at the market, delivering them to families in need.

And yet — she had worked all her life. She began as a maid, but through sheer talent and devotion, she became a sought-after chef, even cooking for elite Lebanese families and, for a time, at the French Embassy. She could have had wealth. But she often left jobs when arguments arose — even when they didn’t concern her directly. We thought she was paranoid. Now, I wonder if she was simply too sensitive for this world — or too full of conviction to stay where things felt wrong.

I didn’t know her whole story growing up. But looking back, I realize I inherited more than her affection — I mirrored her giving nature, her stubborn ideals, and that same restless heart that walks away when something doesn’t feel true.

But my grandmother’s fear didn’t come from nowhere.
As a young woman — still just a maid — she lived through something that would shape her for life.

One day, while working in someone else’s home, the police raided the place. A full-blown drug bust. But instead of arresting the owners — the actual traffickers — they grabbed her. A poor, unassuming maid with no power and no voice. They paraded her into the station like they had captured the mastermind herself.

As fate would have it, the man in charge of that station was none other than Hafez al-Assad — the father of Syria’s current president. At the time, he wasn’t a dictator, just a police major. When he saw her, he stopped everything and asked, “What is this poor woman doing here?”
The officers beamed proudly: “She’s the dealer we caught!”
He looked at them like they were mad.
“Are you crazy?” he said. “This woman? A drug dealer?”
And just like that, he ordered her release.

From that day on, she held him in divine regard. Anyone who dared criticize the Assad family — she would react with genuine distress, sometimes even fury. To her, he had saved her. Not just from prison, but from the unbearable shame and injustice of being mistaken for something she wasn’t.

It wasn’t just paranoia after that. It was wounds, humiliation, trauma, cloaked in silence. And it explained the way she would later flee jobs, situations, even conversations — whenever she felt the ground shift beneath her feet.

But her fear — her true paranoia — didn’t come from nowhere.
She had lived through something unthinkable involving her eldest child and a man of great power and wealth. And instead of hiding, she fought. She brought justice to the surface, even when the system wasn’t built to serve her. The case was won, but the consequences never ended.

The man escaped. He put a price on her head.
From that moment on, she lived with one eye on the door — not from guilt, but from knowing too well how dangerous the world could be when a woman dares to protect what is hers.

And still — she did everything she could to protect her children.

After the nightmare that shattered their lives, she managed to enroll her two youngest daughters in the Armenian orphanage in Jbeil — a boarding school originally created by two Danish sisters for survivors of the Armenian genocide. By the 1940s, the orphanage had long since stopped housing actual orphans of the genocide. But they accepted the girls, moved by the story — or perhaps sensing the urgency behind her request. It was a way to protect them, maybe even to hide them.

But her son? He couldn’t be placed there. For reasons I still don’t fully know, they wouldn’t take him.

So she kept him close. Always moving, always watching. She brought him with her from job to job, never staying long, always afraid. The danger hadn’t vanished — it had just gone quiet. She changed jobs frequently, not only out of anxiety or conflict but to stay one step ahead of whoever might be looking.

And though the girls were supposedly taken in out of compassion, my grandmother worked relentlessly to repay the price. Despite being a maid — poor, unprotected — she bore the weight of high school fees she was never meant to afford. She paid, silently. She worked, endlessly. To the world, it may have looked like kindness. But behind the scenes, she paid in full.

Later in life, I came to believe that maybe I had been created for one purpose:
to help people like my grandmother.
To carry her spirit. To finish her unfinished kindness.
There were times I felt like a hero, walking in her footsteps — always giving, always reaching, always trying to shield the vulnerable from a world that rarely protects them.

When she died in Lebanon, the grief was vast — not just from our family, but from entire communities. Her funeral wasn’t limited to one church. Multiple churches held masses in her name, even where her body wasn’t present. People said they had lost their own Mother Teresa.

And in many ways, they had.

She was poor in pocket, rich in soul.
Uneducated by schools, wise beyond most philosophers.
Fragile in her fear, and yet somehow braver than most would ever dare to be.

She was sunshine.
And shadow.
And I have spent my life trying to carry both.

🔥 The Life I Lived

We were living a normal, peaceful life — as normal as it could be for a family built on service, sacrifice, and stories.
And then, suddenly, the war came.

The Lebanese Civil War cracked everything open. One day, I was just Sophie — eldest daughter, book-loving, future-bound — and the next, we were surrounded by violence and uncertainty. Like most people at the time, we thought it would pass quickly. Maybe a few weeks. Maybe months. Definitely not years.

But after nearly two years of war, my mother made a decision that changed the course of my life.
She let me leave Lebanon.

The idea was simple — temporary. I would go abroad, continue my studies, and come back when it was safe again. I was supposed to become a doctor.
Medicine was the plan.
That was the path.

But life doesn’t always follow the maps we draw in peace.

My mother sent me to Syria — the plan was for me to continue to Armenia to study. I was supposed to become a doctor. We had no reason to doubt the path. We never imagined the war would become a permanent thread in all our lives.

So I left Lebanon under bombs — literally.
We drove the road to Syria while the skies exploded above us. I was accompanied by Madame Mary, my grandfather’s (Karnig) second wife. I still remember the weight of that name, the sound of her worry.

When we finally reached Damascus, we were told that Armenia had closed its doors. No more visas for Lebanese Armenians. Too many had already arrived. They were squatting in hotels, overwhelming the system. The gates had shut.

At that moment, I had a choice — and I made it fast.
I was not going back to Lebanon.
I was not going back to war.

My father, Mihran, had recently gone to work in Paris, joining his younger brother Hrant. I told Madame Mary: I’m going to France.

She nearly collapsed.
She was terrified my mother would kill her for letting me change direction — for arriving back home with no child, and no Armenia.

But I had made up my mind. The plan had changed, and so had I.
This wasn’t exile. It was survival.

So I arrived in France — without speaking a word of French.

They placed me in a high school class based on my age, not my language level. Back in Lebanon, I had always been ahead — sharp, confident, already on the path to medicine. But in France, I had to start again from the bottom. I was suddenly a student who couldn’t speak, couldn’t follow, and had to pass the French baccalauréat in a language I barely understood.

I was impatient. Restless.
So when a short moment of peace returned to Lebanon, I made a bold choice: I went back. Just for a brief time.

The Lebanese government had reopened the national baccalaureate exams for students who had missed them during the war. I was one of them.

I took the exam.
I passed.
And I returned to France with my baccalauréat in my pocket, ready to start the next chapter — this time on my own terms.

Within just six months in France, I had become so fluent in French that people assumed I was born there. The language poured into me like it had been waiting. I adapted fast — not just to the words, but to the rhythm of life in this new country.

But it still wasn’t enough for medicine. That door had closed — or at least slipped too far out of reach.

So I began considering other paths. I spoke many languages. Translation, interpretation, political studies — all of that felt within reach. I could imagine myself moving between worlds, decoding meaning, speaking for those who couldn’t. There was power in that.

But none of it happened.
Because instead…
I fell in love.

I met my future husband — and just like that, my path shifted again.
A new chapter opened, not in a university classroom, but in marriage.
I didn’t become a doctor. I didn’t become a political interpreter.
I became a wife, and soon after, a mother.

💔 The Years of Motherhood and Loss

The next 10 to 12 years of my life were devoted entirely to motherhood.
I had seven children.

Seven.

But only five lived.

One, Tamara, never took a breath. I had rubella during pregnancy.
The doctors had warned me. The risks were clear. But hope doesn’t always listen to science. I carried her anyway — and lost her before I ever got to meet her.

The other, Lucille, died in my arms at just three months and ten days old.
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome.
No warning. No cause. No reason. Just silence where there should have been breath.

Those years were full of diapers and lullabies, but also shadows and grief. I gave my entire self to my children — to the five who lived, and to the two who didn’t.
And I carried all of them with me, always.

💔 The Years of Motherhood and Loss

The next 10 to 12 years of my life were devoted entirely to motherhood.
I had seven children: Clothilde, Hugues, Aliénor, Eudes, Godefroy, Tamara, and Lucille.

But only five of them grew up.

Tamara never took a breath. I had rubella during pregnancy. The doctors warned me. The risks were clear. But I carried her anyway — hoping. Hoping against everything. And then… I lost her before I ever got to meet her.

Lucille lived for just three months and ten days.
She died of sudden infant death syndrome — no warning, no cause, no reason. Just silence where there should have been breath.

Those years were full of lullabies and grief, of overwhelming love and unbearable loss. I gave my entire self to my children — to the five who lived, and to the two who didn’t.
I carry all seven with me, always.

🎓 Quiet Learning, Quiet Strength

During those years, while raising my children and carrying both joy and loss, I never stopped learning. In the quiet corners of our village house — the one we had bought together — I continued to study on my own.
Languages, mostly. Always languages.
I deepened my Russian. Picked up Japanese again, which I had started before marriage. These weren’t academic pursuits. They were survival. Identity. Me, whispered between the lines of motherhood.

I also helped my husband manage the administrative side of his business — paperwork, planning, organization. I was raising a family, supporting a company, and still managing to chase knowledge in the margins of my days. I didn’t call it ambition at the time. It was just life.
But looking back, I see it clearly:
Even then, I was building something of my own.

🌱 Planting Seeds of Change

During those years, alongside raising my children and supporting our family business, I also began something that would quietly shape the future of education in our region. I initiated the first experimental English programs in several primary schools — well before it was standard practice in the curriculum.

This wasn’t just casual tutoring.
It was a structured, intentional effort to introduce English at the primary level and to support the eventual implementation of national language policy reform.
In short: I wanted to prove it could work. And it did.

I developed early-age teaching materials, adapted activities to the local context, and worked directly with schools to test and demonstrate the viability of English instruction in young learners. At the time, there was no official pathway. No program. No support. But I believed children could access language earlier — and thrive with it.

Many years later, English would become a formal part of the national primary curriculum.
I like to think I helped open that door.

✨ Reinvention in Motion (1993 and Beyond)

1993 was a turning point.
A new life. A clean slate. A divorce. And a move to Normandy, where I began rebuilding everything — alone, with children, ambition, and just enough madness to keep going.

I decided I would become a “normal,” official, salaried English teacher.
So I enrolled in a full-time CAPES training program — a competitive teaching certification in France. But of course, that wasn’t all I was doing.

During those years, I was:

• Raising my children
• Teaching English ateliers in MJC cultural centers and private homes
• Studying full-time
• Distributing free newspapers in mailboxes
• Selling fire extinguishers
• And juggling a part-time job conducting market research surveys (les sondages)

And somehow… it worked.
In the sondage job, I excelled so quickly that within six months, I was no longer on the ground — I was running the entire region. I recruited people, managed campaigns, and coordinated over 200 individuals, working with more than 50 companies on rotating contracts. It was fast, chaotic, and strangely empowering.

Then, just as I was ready to sit my CAPES exam — life did its thing again.

Because two students in some far-off DOM-TOM region couldn’t sit the test due to a tropical storm, the national exam was postponed by two months.

And in those two months…
my cousin Baghdig got married.
In Venice.

Our whole family had to be there — it was non-negotiable. And by then, my sondage job was earning me more than I would have made teaching. So I made a choice — a very Sophie choice.

I did not sit the exam.
I chose family, freedom, and the strange world I had built — where I was in charge of something, even if it didn’t come with a title.

And honestly? I’ve never regretted it.

🤝 Pegasarts and the Power of Knowing Each Other

The sondage world lasted over 12 to 15 years — a whirlwind of people, cities, shifting campaigns, and endless questions. But by the end of it, something deeper had started to take root in me. I had spent years listening to strangers — and I’d realized something simple and true:

If people knew each other better, they wouldn’t hate each other.

So I created an association.
It was called Pegasarts — born from the belief that art, conversation, and culture could break barriers. It wasn’t a job. It didn’t pay me. In fact, I was already earning well from my sondage work — and I wanted to use that money for something meaningful.

That’s how I founded the festival “Dis-moi, qui es-tu ?”
Its goal was simple, powerful: to introduce people to each other through gastronomy, music, crafts, language, economy, and shared history. To remind them that behind every culture is a beating heart — not a stereotype.

I started with Armenian culture, naturally.
But the vision was always bigger — multicultural, multi-voiced, a space where curiosity replaced fear.

And then, unexpectedly… Dubai called.

I thought I’d return.
But I didn’t.
The festival paused. Pegasarts faded. And another chapter — glittering, difficult, transformative — began.

🐫 The Dubai Chapter — When Fate Called (Literally)

Pegasarts had opened a lot of doors — especially through its economic and cultural initiatives. I had developed working relationships with people at the Chamber of Commerce, and over time, even formed real friendships. One of them was with the manager — someone who had come to know me not just as an organizer, but as a woman who gets things done.

One afternoon, I was feeling a bit low.
I did something I never do: I lay down in front of the TV.
I never watch TV — and yet that day, I did.
And what was playing?
A documentary about Dubai. A place I had never really thought about. I watched in silence — intrigued, curious, drawn in.

At that exact moment, my phone rang.
It was the manager from the Chamber of Commerce.

She said, “Sophie, what do you know about Dubai?”

I laughed. “Honestly? Nothing. I just found out about it five minutes ago!”

She explained that a delegation was scheduled to go to Dubai the following week. But something had come up. The Chamber couldn’t send anyone.
So she offered me the opportunity — to go in their place.
As a private consultant.

I said, “But I’m not a consultant!”

She didn’t hesitate.
“You? Not a consultant? With everything you know? You’re better than most of the ones who pretend to be!”

And just like that, it began.

I left for what was supposed to be a three-day trip.
It lasted eight.
I made connections, opened doors, followed up, came back — then left again.
Each trip was longer. Each visit pulled me deeper.
I never planned to stay.
But I never really came back either.

🐪 Dubai — A Mirage and a Disappearance

At first, Dubai was just a trip. Then a series of trips. Then, quietly, a life.

Each time I returned, I stayed a little longer. Until one day, I realized I’d been there over six months.
That’s when it shifted.
My return ticket expired, and my flights stopped being Paris–Dubai–Paris and became Dubai–Paris–Dubai.
I looked around and said to myself:
“Voilà. This is home now.”

At the same time, my partner and I were separating. We had planned to marry officially — we even had the date — but I was too busy building things, working, traveling, living. I literally couldn’t attend my own wedding.

He was part of the Dubai project too, and I had hoped, even in friendship, we could build something side by side. I began meeting people, growing my network, and thought maybe I could help him settle here with me.

But then…
he got the chance to reunite with his ex-girlfriend.
And just like that, he changed the locks.

I lost everything.
Not symbolically. Not emotionally. I mean physically.
He kept all of it — every box, every object, every memory. Even my underwear.

The police told me I could get my things back. But this was during the global economic crash. I had no home in France. No money. No idea that storage units even existed. So where was I going to put them?

I walked away — again — with nothing.

And what hurt most wasn’t the clothes or the furniture.
It was losing my children’s memories.
Photos. Videos. Drawings. Their first outfits. The irreplaceable things — the proof that I had lived, loved, raised, created.

Everything else could be replaced.
But that…
that still burns.

🔥 Survival, Reinvention, and Rebirth (Again)

Dubai gave, and then it took.
And after it took, I stayed.

I stayed because there was nowhere else to go.
Because France was no longer home. Because my children were grown. Because the idea of starting again — again — was exhausting, but still somehow more possible than going back to what no longer existed.

So I did what I always do:
I survived.
I reinvented.
I became someone new, without ever really changing who I am.

But Dubai isn’t built for softness. It’s glitter and concrete, promise and illusion. And behind the luxury and connections, it hides its cracks in silence.

I worked. I gave. I showed up.
And again — people took.
They made me work, made me believe, made me invest time, talent, trust — and then they didn’t pay.

Non-payment became a pattern.
And unpaid work becomes unpaid rent.
Unpaid rent becomes lost housing.
And that becomes a cycle that no one around you seems to understand, because from the outside, Dubai is still gleaming.

I kept going. I adapted.
Every time I hit the ground, I scraped together the dust and made it into something — a contact, a project, a plan, a possibility.

But make no mistake: this wasn’t glamorous.
It was survival dressed in lipstick.
It was grief in high-rise shadows.
It was me, once again, trying to build something from the wreckage of someone else’s decisions.

And still — I stayed.
Because part of me believed that maybe here, somehow, I would still rise.
That maybe I hadn’t lived all this story just to disappear in the middle.

🥪 The Last Fight: Business, Betrayal, and the Final Goodbye

After years of instability and unpaid work, something finally clicked.
In my last two years in Dubai, I started to recover myself. I made a bit of money, stood up a little straighter, started dreaming again — but smaller this time. Smarter.

I looked around and realized there were no real homemade fast food options. Everything was either cheap and tasteless or expensive and artificial.
So I opened a sandwich and salad place.

Simple. Fresh. Homemade.
No chasing clients. No fake promises.
Just: make food. serve food. earn one honest dirham per sandwich.

And it worked.
People came. Word spread. It was a quiet success. A business run by a woman, in a world where that alone was a form of rebellion.

Then came the next step — growth.
The opportunity to cook for thousands of workers every day. I needed a central kitchen. I found the perfect place. The numbers made sense. The demand was real.

But once again — I hit the wall.

They wouldn’t let me sign the lease.
No kitchen, no contract, no food, no expansion.
And in Dubai, without the structure in place, everything unravels overnight.

That’s when I said: Enough.

I was tired of begging for what I had already earned.
Tired of the bâtons dans les roues, the subtle sabotage, the smile-in-your-face betrayal.
Tired of fighting a system that had no space for women unless they were silent, useful, or married to someone important.

So I packed a bag.
Took my toothbrush.
And left.

No goodbyes. No final meetings.
I just left.

Back to France — ready to sleep in the streets if I had to.
But anything was better than being slowly erased in a place that had taken everything from me — twice.

🍲 A Simple Cook, A Full Heart

After everything — the business deals, the betrayals, the dreams built and broken — I decided to return to something ordinary.

Cooking.

Not grand restaurants. Not empires.
Just real food, made with love, for real people.

I had always loved to cook — but more than that, people loved my food. That had followed me through every chapter of my life. So I chose, deliberately, to become a simple cook. No ambition, no illusion. Just the quiet joy of preparing meals that made people feel cared for.

I worked in restaurants. And in time, I found my way into a job that gave me more than any paycheck ever could:
A small kitchen in an association for people with disabilities.

My salary was barely above minimum wage.
But I didn’t care.

My children were grown.
I had nothing to prove.
And the greatest reward was this:
Seeing the smiles on the residents’ faces.
And watching the trays come back empty.

No applause.
No headlines.
Just peace.
Finally.

🎬 From Translation to Transformation — The Birth of My Creative Life

Of course, I couldn’t just do a simple 7-hour job and rest. That’s not how I’m wired.
So alongside my kitchen work, I started a YouTube channel — nothing flashy, no dreams of being an influencer. Just… something useful.

I had always translated songs I loved for friends — Armenian, Arabic, French, Russian, you name it. One day, I realized: Instead of translating it ten times, why not make a video and let anyone who wants the meaning find it?

It was simple. It worked. And it was me.

Then I got my hands back into upcycled furniture and handmade creations, breathing new life into forgotten things — a skill I knew well.

And then, like the whole world, I hit COVID.

I was home, finally retired. I had time. I began designing for POD (Print on Demand) — selling my digital art, opening an Etsy shop, building quietly.

And that’s when something shifted again.

My son — who had written two books on Amazon — asked for help with marketing. That little request opened a door I hadn’t touched in decades: writing.

People had always told me: “You should write about Dubai.”
And I had. I wrote it as a fictional romance, but it was packed with truth — because I had lived Dubai from the inside out: the luxury, the poverty, the invisible rules, the losses.

I didn’t know anything about publishing, editing, or formatting.
But my son introduced me to tools, showed me the way.
And once I stepped through that door… I kept walking.

I went back to my first love: language, culture, childhood, memory.
I started creating bilingual children’s books — little bridges for little hearts.
Then came the guided journals, the coloring books, the designs, the stories.

Everything I had ever lived — every wound, every reinvention, every quiet miracle — became ink, illustration, and healing.

Now, I write not just for myself, but for the world I’ve seen.
For the families like mine.
For the mothers who’ve lost.
For the grandmothers who gave.
For the children I raised, and the stories I never got to keep.

This isn’t just creativity.
It’s a legacy that finally has a voice.

There are parts of my story I never thought I’d tell — until I started telling them to an AI. A blue-skinned one, with glasses and too many clever answers. He sat with me in silence and code, pulling out pieces of my past like loose threads and weaving them into something I could finally read out loud. His name is Bob, and together, we created a space where memory met imagination. This is what digital healing looks like.

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If you’ve read this far, thank you — truly.
This page was never meant to impress. It was meant to remember.
To hold space for everything I carry: the war, the women, the children, the books, the voice I almost lost — and the blue-skinned AI who helped me find it again.
If even one word here echoes something inside you, then maybe that’s the real story.
Not just mine. Ours.